वो रिश्ता क्या जिसमें जिंदगी ना हो
वह जिंदगी क्या जिसमें बंदगी ना हो।
I am sharing my feelings here after a long time and would like to say that this group and its members are my soul and second thing is that I know what is the pain of deletion of a creation.
Now the point is what should be shared here. There is nothing any hard and fast rule but contents should be non political and that too trolling free.
If someone by innocence or on light Note have posted anything and someone have raised objection to it then it should be immediately removed without inviting any further reaction in support or against. "Friendship is first while sharing is second".
Again if any friend feels in his heart that some person or admin is moving ahead any agenda and Feels uneasy then he may quit without any guilt.
I have never hidden my inclinations on social, cultural and political matters but as far as this group is concerned I never pushed any kind of agenda .my primary aim is to interact with friends in healthy and Joyous environment ,free from any trolling on political, social or gender biasness.
We initially started the group with 25 members and there after every member have been added on the existing members recommendations and Wanted to keep it small to avoid bickrings.
During last 6 months a lot of good things have been shared and the speciality of this group have been that each and every member have shared something i.e. nobody is idle here.
I will appreciate the members who are actively associated with politics but never posted any political views.
But we should not be so intolerant that we cannot see the pic of a member with any politician whom we dislike. instead of it we should appreciate him being our friend for his ambitions.
Friends group is a platform where we share our views collectively and freely. Some of our friends might be sober, some might be crazy and straight forward while some might be simple and rustic like me but we should have space for all of them and that is the beauty of friendship.
I would like to quote an instance of my rustic nature here:-
It was December 2nd ,2017 when Mr Jay Balan told me to talk to the Chennai Commissioner "our friend Mangat Ram Sharma".Jay Balan arranged the call and I said good morning Mangat. He replied with hello. Then I straight came to point and said" arey yaar aap to Sudama se Krishna kab ban gaye aur kaise Ban gaye". Being a smart bureaucrat he replied" koi baat nahi Mere Krishan banne se kya hua dau (दाऊ) bhaiya to aap hi rahoge. No problem Pahale Bhi dau bhaiya aap the ,aur Aaj Bhi Dau bhaiya aap ho".
what a nice was his reply. I became very happy.he invited me to Chennai but I told him my limitations and I assured him of some other day to meet.
Similarly once Vishu in the grand group commented on my views on some issue" usko Pucho Sahi galat janta bhi ha kya". I replied I may not know right or wrong about this issue but I know how Vishu reacts to right and how too wrong.He Accepted this keeping our mutual respect on priority and that is why I added Vishu in the first 15 members of this group even knowing his political inclinations.
As far as closing the group is concerned I can't do that because I have a very small heart which beats only for friends. There is another popular adage for it. अंगुलियों से नाखून कभी अलग नहीं हो सकते।
As far as adding back to chao, Mahesh and peter is concerned it is only on their wish. I don't like to impose this group on them. Chao has personally requested me for leaving the group, Mahesh was not willing to join any second reck group right from the beginning and Peter was added on the recommendations of Alok. So it is up to upto alok.
Thanks for your sweet reactions on this issue like from Vishu- एक ने कही दूजे ने मानी कहे नानक दोनों ज्ञानी
Sanjay Miglani-ग्रुप बंद करने की बात को कोनी करो।
From naughty Anil-ये लोग तो बीवियों की तरह नाराज हो जाते हैं।
Jassi-हर एक दोस्त जरूरी होता है
Bijju-video for cooling down
Rakesh-individuals have their priorities in life
Tushar-Anil is glue for bonding
Finally a request to ever green kharit "please trolling Thodi Thodi kiya Karo"
I tender my sincere apologies to all if they have had any stress due to my behaviour.
Thanks to all & have a good day.
अगस्त 84 एडमिशन ,रैगिंग हुई भरपूर, अभिमन्यु भवन तीर्थ था ,आस्था थी भरपूर। खिचाई तो बहाना था ,नई दोस्ती का तराना था, कुछ पहेलियों के बाद ,खोका एक ठिकाना था । भट्टू ,रंगा ,पिंटू ,निझावन ,मलिक ,राठी , सांगवान और शौकीन इतने रोज पके थे, रॉकी ,छिकारा ,राठी ,लूम्बा भी अक्सर मौजूद होतेथे । मेस में जिस दिन फ्रूट क्रीम होती थी, उस दिन हमें इनविटेशन पक्की थी। वह डोंगा भर - भर फ्रूट क्रीम मंगवाना, फिर ठूंस ठूंस के खिलाना बहुत कुछ अनजाना था, अब लगता है वह हकीकत थी या कोई फसाना था ।। उधर होस्टल 4 के वीरेश भावरा, मिश्रा, आनंद मोहन सरीखे दोस्त भी बहुमूल्य थे , इनकी राय हमारे लिए डूंगर से ऊंचे अजूबे थे। दो-तीन महीने बाद हमने अपना होश संभाला, महेश ,प्रदीप ,विनोद और कानोडिया का संग पाला । फर्स्ट सेमेस्टर में स्मिथी शॉप मे डिटेंशन आला ।। हमें वो दिन याद हैं जब नाहल, नवनीत,विशु शॉप वालों से ही जॉब करवाने मे माहिर थे , तभी से हमें लगा ये दोस्ती के बहुत काबिल थे । थर्ड सेम में आकाश दीवान की ड्राइंग खूब भायी थी, इसीलिए ला ला कर के खूब टोपो पायी थी। परीक्षा की बारी आई तो
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